Work or Leisure? But Always Pleasure! (Well, nearly always…)

Last week I had an interesting conversation with Peter, one of my adult pupils. I have quite a few adults learning to play the piano, both gentlemen and ladies. Some of them learnt as children, but “gave up” and have re-started. Others never had the opportunity or the inclination before, but have begun learning to play later in life. The age range of my adult pupils is quite wide, but all of them are doing brilliantly!

Adults have a particular drive to practise and improve. After all, it’s their money going on the lessons and they want value from it.

Frequently, it’s a long-held desire to play a particular piece of music, or just to play music, that provides the momentum.

And sometimes it just comes out of the blue – that inspiration to try something you’ve never done before.

This conversation with Peter came about because of a simple exchange we had as we said goodbye at the end of Peter’s piano lesson a couple of weeks ago. I was so struck by what he said, I wanted to explore it further, so I invited Peter to come along especially to discuss his views on learning to play the piano as an adult. He began his current musical journey when he was in his sixties.

My words are in black text and Peter’s words are in colour (apparently, it’s “Light Sea Green”!) If the colour doesn’t show up on the email, make sure you “View The Post” (button at the bottom).


  • Hi Peter, and thanks very much for coming along and agreeing to have a chat about your music.

    This is a follow-up to a conversation we had on the doorstep after your piano lesson last week.

    We were talking about adults learning music, and particularly learning music as beginners, when they hadn’t played very much as children.

    Because you are retired now from work, I made the rather throw-away comment that music is a wonderful hobby for retired people, and you responded, very assertively, saying, “I think of it as my work!”

    I was so intrigued by that remark, I wanted to know more about it. I would love to know why you think of learning music as your work and how that fits in with your life. So – over to you!

  • Were you encouraged in your music by your parents?

  • So your interest is mostly in classical music?

  • What made you choose the recorder?

  • You won a recorder in a raffle! And you thought, “Oh, I really want to learn to play this!”

  • Lovely!

  • So you felt the recorder wasn’t quite what you wanted? Or you wanted to expand?

  • But you were just a beginner!

  • And you’re still a member?

  • I remember it well! But how did you get involved in playing the piano?

  • Do you have a routine for your practice? Every day at this particular time—

  • When you say you “record” what you’re doing, do you mean an audio recording, or that you write down what you’ve done?

  • Do you write it down before you do it? Like, “My goal for today is to learn this passage”?

  • Wow. Do you do this in the morning, Peter? You get up and you say, “Ok, on the saxophone I want to achieve blah blah blah, and on the piano I want to achieve – and there’s another list of fantastic bullet points?” And then off you go to do it?

  • But of course, you know what those other things are. You’ll know in advance that today I’m only going to have this amount of time, but tomorrow I’ll have a bit more time, perhaps? But you’re always planning and organising how and when you’re going to do your music.

  • Not everyone is.

  • Going back to the comment about it being “work”, that applies to your scheduling, like someone who has to be in the office by a certain time. Is there any other aspect that makes music practice feel like work? Is it hard work? It’s not work you’re getting paid for, so in what other ways does it feel like “This is now my work”?

  • Work, in the sense of working for an employer or being self-employed, is said to be very rewarding, providing it’s work you enjoy. Would you say there is a similarity there as well with your music? Do you find it rewarding, and do you enjoy it?

  • All that breathing!

  • So as you get older, it’s more demanding physically? Whereas the piano perhaps isn’t. You’ve said it’s a strain mentally, and I agree with you on that. There is so much to think about and process. But it’s very good in that sense, isn’t it? As you get into your later years, to have something that challenges you mentally has to be a very good thing. When you’re no longer going to work and being challenged in that way?

  • There’s been a lot of talk recently, hasn’t there, about how some people who are on benefits ought to be in work because it’s so much better for you.

  • And this is fulfilling that same requirement, isn’t it. I’m not saying that learning to play the piano is some kind of therapy or cure for anything, but I think it’s a great thing for all of us, whether young or old, but particularly as we get older to have that stimulation and that challenge to our mental capabilities and to keep using our minds.

    So do you intend to keep going with both piano and saxophone, Peter?

  • And what do you think about taking music exams, especially as an adult?

  • Do you mind telling people which grades you’re working for on these two instruments?

  • The recorder is perfect for folk music.

  • That’s fantastic. What a wonderful thing to do. You can keep your music going wherever you are.

    Well, thank you so much for coming in and having a chat, and I know this is going to be really interesting to everyone. Thanks, Peter.

Since this conversation took place, Peter has drawn an article to my attention. It’s a chat between Melvyn Bragg and David Hockney for Mr Bragg’s South Bank Show, and it took place in August 2023. David Hockney talks to Melvyn Bragg about his inspiration and his art. David tells Melvyn that the first thing he sees every day when he wakes up – and has done since adolescence – is a hand-written sign, each letter a different colour, at the end of his bed that says: “Get up and work immediately.”

Melvyn Bragg goes on to say that David is now 88 and can still work for seven hours a day in his studio! I think Mr Hockney would approve of Peter’s attitude to his music! And Peter – keep working! You’ve a way to go to catch up with Mr Hockney!


(Humoresque Number 13)

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